What’s cool?
Traveling? Staying home with your family? Drinking with your friends and watching football? Climbing a new mountain?
I think it’s obvious to say that there is no objective measure of the coolest thing to do. It’s all a matter of what narrative you buy.
There is no right or wrong, yet we find ourselves striving towards an ideal. Someone’s ideal.
There’s nothing wrong with striving as a long as your recognize it’s a narrative, and you have a choice.