When everyone is in, it’s a vibe.
You’re on the same page. You’re doing the same thing. Maybe not feeling the same way about it, but at least there is common ground.
The contrast is when some people are in, and some people are out.
Now there’s a conflict. Who is right?
One group is thinking that dancing together is fun. And the other has chosen not to dance at all.
You miss out on the collective vibe and instead get a weird tug of war.
Why can’t we all dance?