If you fight for your limitations, you get to keep themJim Kwik
If you see obstacles, and spend all your energy insisting upon their presence, your journey will be full of them.
If you see solutions, you will live in a world of possibility.
There’s a magical frame shift in this quote that if someone is fighting for their limitations, maybe it’s not worth fighting back. Maybe it’s just worth pointing out that by focusing on obstacles, you aren’t moving forward. That’s the reward you get for the rationalizing why progress is impossible at the moment.