The way the motorcyclist revs his engine and stares angrily at the rowdy college kids. He’s looking for something to dislike.
The unfortunate thing is that when you look for something to dislike, you can usually find it. Our minds are always looking for confirming evidence.
Knowing that, the better posture would be to look for something to love. When you enter a situation with that lens on, you’ll probably find it.
What a nicer way to move through the world.